Becoming Magnetic

I know a very spiritual woman who has recently realized a reversal in her circumstances: She told me, 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'

What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?

It's easier than you think. It simply takes a shift in perception.

We choose what we focus on in life. We choose to be miserable when it rains and happy when it's sunny. Or we can appreciate the downpour as an opportunity to take care of indoor activities or to go splashing through puddles.

By putting our focus on good, we draw good to us. Conversely, by focusing on grief, we draw more to grieve. There's absolutely a place for grief in our lives, I'm not suggesting otherwise, but we need to be mindful that we are not suffering over our own suffering and not continually drawing grief to us.

I overheard a girl in a caf telling her friend, 'I'm a total freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane or whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'

Her friend responded, 'That's strange. Your neighborhood is really nice. I can't imagine there would be too many freaks around there.'

'They're everywhere I am. It's like they're out there waiting for me to leave my house just so they can shout in my face or try to get me to join their cult.'

What an awful thing for this girl, I thought to myself, to believe that she is a magnet for freaks, that no matter where she goes, she's giong to draw to her the lowest common denominator.

This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.

I was so tempted. . . I wanted to tell her, 'You're programming yourself to be a freak magnet. You could just as easily be a money magnet, or a parking space magnet. . .' but I realized that my intrusion would only further her self-diagnosis. She'd completely misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak, as in, 'You wouldn't believe the freak that came up to me in the cafe. . . He seemed normal, but. . . '

Whatever your beliefs, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust your expectations of what the world is going to bring you and start requesting only good and not the lowest common denominator.

Kenrick Cleveland teaches strategies to earn the business of affluent prospects using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in persuasion strategies.

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